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لم يكن هدف الورشة هو نشر التوعية عن الأيدز فحسب بل كان أيضاً هو حث المجتمع على تقبل فكرة التعايش مع مريض الأيدز وأن نرفع عنه الوصم أى وصمة العار التى تلاحقه وتطارده بقية عمره، ولأن مجتمعاتنا تميل إلى التصنيف وبالتالى إلى التمييز الذى يستدعيه هذا التصنيف فلم نعف حتى المرضى وأعنى فى موضوعنا هذا مرضى الأيدز تحديداً فرحنا نصنفهم ونميزهم ونضعهم فى قائمة الممنوعين من أن نتعايش ونتواصل معهم فصار مريض الأيدز ليس مجرد مريضاً بل هو شخص آثم لابد من اجتنابه ومن ثم حملناه كل أوزارنا وكشفنا له عن وجه مستر هايد القبيح المختبئ خلف وجه دكتور جيكل ذو الملامح الطيبة.

نتحدث كثيراً عن قبول الآخر فإذا كان مريض الأيدز بفعل التمييز تحول إلى آخر وبات منبوذاً وموصوماً أليس هو أهم وأولى آخر يتحتم علينا قبوله والتعايش معه.

أرفعوا الوصم عن هؤلاء ولا تصدقوا أنه ليست للأيدز أسباب سوى ما أتى به فيلم الحب فى طابا، قوموا بزيارتهم فى المستشفيات فلا يجب أن تتحول غرفهم هناك إلى عنابر حبس إنفرادى حيث لا زيارات ولا باقات ورد ولا ابتسامات ودودة مشجعة، إذهبوا إليهم فى منازلهم، وصافحوهم، فالسلام باليد معهم آمن، كما أن فى الأصل فعل السلام نفسه آمن وضرورى كى نبقى بشراً.

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كانت الورشة تحمل جانباً إبداعياً سواء نصوصاً أو عروضاً أو غناءاً وكلها كانت تلقائية ومن وحى الورشة وموضوعها فكان أن قدمت أنا هذه الأبيات التى أتمنى أن تصبح أغنية وهى على لسان مريض إيدز يعاتب صديقاً أو يعاتب مجتمعاً بأكمله

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أنا موصوم على حزنى

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نبض اسكندرية said...

رائع ياشمى احييك

وحمدلله على السلامة

ibn_abdel_aziz said...

شكرا يا شمعي علي الخضور والالتزام
وعلي الشعر الجميل ده

صحفية روشة said...

0جميل تضامنك معهم يا شمعى وانا كمان متضامنه على فكرة
سلام

Anonymous said...

حتى المرض أصبح سبباً للنعزل به عن بعض

متى تتوحد الجزر المنعزلة

أتمنى أن يصل المجتمع للقناعة التى وصلتم اليها

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كلامك تمام

ولكن مرض الإيدز خطير

وعندك حق مش بس بينتقل عن طريق العلاقات الجنسية ممكن ينتقل لإنسان غصبن عنه

بس برده ده مش يمنع ان احنا ناخد بالاسباب وناخذ حذرنا

د/هيما

mohammed alsha3r said...

انا متضامن
شوفت الموضوع عند عبد المنعم
وكويس ان فى مدونين من جميع الاتجاهات مشاركه فيه

أحمد مصطفى said...

جميل جدا ياشمعى تضامنك معهم

تقبل تحياتى

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اجندا حمرا said...

العزيزه شمعي

شوفي ده تفكير مجتمع بحاله
ان مريض الايدز يكون معزول عن العالم الخارجي
زي ماقلتي طرق نقل المرض مش بس زي اللي صورها فيلم الحب في طابا تمام زي الالتهاب الكبدي الفيروسي سي
لكن للأسف البني ادم ممكن يتقبل ان قريب له يكون عنده فيروس سي لكن مايقبلش ان يجيله ايدز و جايما افكار الناس بتروح للحاجه الوحشه اول مابيسمعوا عن حد اصيب بالمرض ده
صدقيني مش بس هنا بره برضه فيه ناس لسه بالعقليه دي و ان كانت اخف حده من اللي عندنا كعرب

نعرف ازاي نحمي نفسنا من المرض ده و نتعامل بشكل ودود مع حامله
انا كان ليا صديق انجليزي كان مصاب بالمرض ده و صارحني بحبه لكن انا كنت بكنله مشاعر صداقه ليست اكثر و عندما حاولت ان ارفض بشكل ظريف اعتقد اني برفض عشان مرضه لكن ماكانش ده الحقيقه انا بس كنت معتبراه كصديق و اخ ليس اكثر
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عايزاك تشاركني في اللي انا كاتباه في مدونتي وتساعدني انها تتنشر

كنت مبسوطة اوي اني شوفتك يا ولد
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أحمد سلامــة said...

فيفترة زمنية غبراء كان يتم اخذ التبرعات بأكياس الدم دون الخضوع للفحص حيث لم يكن الايدز ولا فيرس الاتهاب الكبدي الوبائي اكتشفا بعد
وبعد فترة الحضانة الطويلة
كان اي مريض منح كيس دم في الفترة من منتصف السبعينات واواخر التمانينات تقريبا عرضة للإصابة بأحد الكابوسين او كليهما
كم مريض حكم عليه بمرض ملعون كل ذنبه في الحياه انه احتاج لكيس دم ومنح كيس دم ملوث
وبعيدا عن طرق نقل المرض الصعبة جدا والتي تحتم امتزاج سوائل بين الجسدين فان الانسانية البسيطة جدا تحتم علينا الوقوف جوارهم لانهم بشر ومرضى في ان واحد
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اتمنى لكم التوفيق

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كان فعلاً شعور غريب إن الواحد يتعامل مع واحد مريض بالإيدز وزى ما قالت إحدى المبدعات في مدونتها - عشب - إنه برغم كل المعلومات الطبية عن مرض الإيدز ما زلت أرتجف عند التفكير في مجرد الإحتكاك - لكن اللي بيخليني أقاوم كل ده وأتعامل وأتكلم وأحترم هو إنه مش بعيد أكون مريض بيه من غير ما أعرف أو بالكبدي أو بأى حاجة شبههم ، وبعدين أنا مين اللي أقرر قدر ووزن إنسان - "من كان منكم بلا خطية فليرجمها بحجر أولاً " - حقيقي

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